Novice Q&A – August Edition
Q: I am a relatively new submissive. I have had two previous D/s relationships. One was ended suddenly – just a week or so after being given a collar, he suddenly disappeared from my life with no...
View ArticleThose First Few Baby Steps
From Submissive Guide Newsletter 6/19/10 Everyone has to start here. The very beginning, where all the jargon of BDSM starts to fill your mind and overwhelm your feelings. You think you are a pervert,...
View ArticleNovice Q&A – September Edition
Q: I know I’m too young to know anything about the world and what I want at just 17, but I’ve still always been interested by the idea of being a submissive, exploring my submissive side, even if just...
View ArticleNovice Q&A – October Edition
Q: I have a very dear friend that is seeking information on male submission. I have tried to help him in this area through searches but finding most are geared to “what kink do you like”. He is...
View ArticleA New Way to Learn: Submissive Guide’s First eCourse!
When I first created Submissive Guide, I wanted to give novice and experienced submissives a place to learn, grow and mature into their personal best submissive possible. Part of my plans has always...
View ArticleAm I Ready to Go from Online to Real Life?
I’m always amazed at the number of submissives that contact me who are in online-only relationships; even though that is how I started with KnyghtMare. An online relationship is unique in that you are...
View ArticleSuper-Ego And The Good Girl
How many times have you heard a submissive say how he/she loves to be told they are a “good girl/boy” by their dominant? Yet how many times have any of them been able to pin point the why of the effect...
View ArticleAsk SehAnru | New and Overwhelmed
Dear SehAnru, i am a novice sub, in fact, i’ve only been actively interested in BDSM for the last three months. To my utter joy, every step seemed to come to me effortlessly. At first i found great...
View ArticleAsk SehAnru | Painfully Shy and New
Hello, I’m very inexperienced in the world of D/s. I’ve read lots of information to try and help me understand myself and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is what I’ve always been looking...
View ArticleHow Do I Know What I Like? I’m Brand New
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 11/17/12 Everyone started here at some point or another. You may even be at this point right now. Brand new to BDSM, D/s or both and not sure what you would like in...
View ArticleTake the Bite Out of Submitting to Pain – Sadomasochism Is Not a Part of...
I’m here to break the news to you about a piece of misinformation about submissives. Are you ready? You do not have to like pain or be a masochist to be submissive. That’s it. That piece of news right...
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